LOYAL FRIEND HELPS WOMAN COPE WITH AFTERMATH OF ABUSE

DEAR ABBY: I'm writing to praise all those friends and family who support their loved ones through and after abusive relationships.

A year ago, I ended a 2 1/2-year relationship with a controlling, emotionally abusive man. During those years, I almost completely ignored my best friend. I was never available to see her socially, and our telephone conversations were few and far between.

I didn't deserve the generosity she showed me after the breakup. If I was sad or lonely, she was there for me every second of the day. She stayed with me long hours while I adjusted to single life, and even dragged her nauseated self (she was pregnant) out with me while I attempted to resume a social life.

I know I am not the only woman who has received friendship, support and love even when they haven't given the same. Readers who ...