Boy, oh, boy

Girls' Life, Feb-March, 2005 by Ally

After reading "Ring in the New ... BF" and the quiz "Cute Boys Ahead. Now What?" [D/J '05], I was rather disconcerted. Each article professes the need to essentially follow your crush everywhere and call him over and over, "appearing" wherever he is, and bothering his friends just to get him to notice you. A guy should date you because he likes you, not because you scared him into it.

--A dissatisfied reader

Thanks so much for "Ring in the New ... BE." It makes total sense, unlike most BF-hunting advice! My guy's gotten the hint--I can't wait to see where we'll be by V Day! Thanks for your help.

--Ally