Bff Dilemma Of The Month

Girls' Life, April, 2001

My BFF always calls my house past midnight I get introuble! How can I stop the late-night calls?

My BFF is a total night owl on the prowl.

If your BFF doesn't realize you get in trouble for it, make sure she understands the rule. If she still calls, she doesn't respect you or your parents. If your friend doesn't respect a simple rule, then she's not a best friend.

--Sarah, 15

I'd set certain times for my friend to call. One night, she can call me at a certain time. The next night, I can call her at a certain time. Or she could write ma a letter and hand it to me the next day!

--Francesca, 15

Unlike your BFF, you actually like to sleep and so do your parents. To stop the wakeup calls, kindly but firmly tell her you like when she calls, but not after 9 p.m.

--Michelle, 14

Because you've explained that she's causing trouble, maybe it's time to tell your parents. Have them pick up the phone and remind her of the rules. If she's a real friend, she'll understand.

--Madison, 12

I like to go to bed early, so I constantly deal with this problem. Maybe your friend doesn't realize how strict your parents are. Make sure she knows your privileges could be taken away totally.

--Mackenzie, 15