Good arrangement

Christian Century, Jan 27, 2004

GOOD ARRANGEMENT: An estimated 60 percent of marriages worldwide are arranged by family members or religious leaders. No one has investigated the type or levels of infatuation these couples have for each other, but it is known that they become very attached. One reason for this is that proximity is a core element in human attachment, according to Cindy Hazan of Cornell University.

A second reason is that in stress we seek solace from those close to us or in a similar state, which also strengthens one's attachment. A third factor contributing to emotional attachment is repeated sexual contact. If it works for arranged marriages, why not for the other kind? (Psychology Today, January/February).