`I met my husband online!' In the world of dating and mating, technology is an important element in connecting couples

Ebony, April, 2003 by Nikitta A. Foston

Despite the growing popularity of online dating and its services, experts suggest that parents monitor the use of these services for teenagers under the age of 18. Careful investigation of a Web site's offerings and requirements, experts say, is also essential in making a decision to use specific services. As with the use of any online service, including dating, researchers advise adults to use caution in providing personal, professional or financial information.

But mature adults, armed with the insight and experiences to build new relationships, are taking advantage of online dating and its benefits. "The thing I like about online dating is getting to know someone's mental state before you dive right in," says a Happilysingle.com user. "Without the pressure of dating or a sexual relationship, you can go at your own pace. Building a solid friendship and foundation is essential."

Ultimately, the success of these online dating services rest at the fingertips of those who log on. Neal Correia, whose whirlwind romance led him down the aisle, advises singles to be positive, open-minded and honest, admitting that there was an amazing chemistry and attraction between him and his wife. "We clicked online instantly, so when we met, it was the best feeling in the world," says Correia. "We are both very much in love and recommend this form of dating to all of our friends."