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Journal of Sex Research, May, 1999 by Michael D. Lyde
UNVEILING MALE RAPE: NO MAN IS IMMUNE Male on Male Rape: The Hidden Toll of Stigma and Shame. By Michael Scarce. New York: Insight Books, 1997, 311 pages. Cloth, $27.95.
Reviewed by Michael D. Lyde, M.A., Department of Psychology, Bowling Green State University, Bowling Green, OH 43403; e-mail: mlyde@bgnet.bgsu.edu.
Traditional constructions of masculinity, societal apathy, and antigay prejudices obscure the acts of sexual violence between men. Scarce removes the shroud that has hidden male rape from public consciousness and consideration. Although Scarce's primary emphasis is the rape of adult men by other adult men, he makes it clear that all men face the possibility of being sexually assaulted by other members of society.
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A recurring theme in the book is that male rape is an act of violence. Scarce presents empirical data and survivor testimony to discredit the myths that entangle male rape with homosexuality and the myths that limit the contexts of male rape. Scarce integrates survivor interviews, newspaper clippings, media representations, and legal case law to demonstrate that male rape is not a violent outbreak of homosexual culture. Most of the male survivors who contributed their stories identified themselves and their attacker as heterosexual. Unlike preceding texts, Scarce's focus is on the instances of male rape that happen outside of prison settings.
Four male rape survivors' accounts constitute the most powerful content of the book. First, the author recounts his date rape in his residence hall room. This story is particularly unsettling because Scarce could hear his neighbors next door, but did not request their help because of intimidation and antigay prejudice. Second, a 30-year-old professional man explains how a walk to his car after a workout at the local health club became a life-altering nightmare. Third, an engaged business student recounts his rape while studying in the woods, his indifferent treatment by medical personnel, the humiliation of a rape examination, the further trauma of police questioning which turned into interrogation, and his ongoing struggle to cope with his victimization. Finally, a college student and feminist activist recounts his assault by three men who wanted to know "How can [he] talk about stopping rape when [he] can't even stop [his] own?" These testimonials show that gay and heterosexual, wealthy and poor, muscular and average-built men are vulnerable to sexual victimization.
Scarce thoroughly distinguishes male rape from homosexuality. The entangling of male rape and homosexuality has had dire consequences for many male survivors. Many survivors tend to question their sexual orientation because of their "sexual" (read: physiological) responses to the assault, which tends to delay their emotional and psychological recovery from their assault. This confusion results in few male rape survivors reporting their experience to medical and law enforcement officials. Many male rape survivors who seek treatment report negative experiences with medical personnel, law enforcement agents, social workers, and counselors.
Additional topics of discussion include exposure to HIV and the role of male rape in feminism. Scarce concludes that a number of factors increase or decrease male rape survivors' chances of seroconversion. In addition, the range of male survivors' experiences with rape crisis centers designed to service women is explored. Finally, Scarce considers whether public disbelief of male rape survivors is effected by an interaction of feminist backlash and antigay prejudice.
Scarce proposes a plan to change public perception of male rape. Strategies to initiate change include informing people as to the prevalence, antecedents, and consequences of male rape; creating a forum for male survivors' voices; providing adequate services for male survivors; repealing sodomy laws and making rape laws gender neutral; and, questioning rape myths that are a part of popular culture.
I strongly recommend Scarce's book to anyone interested in male rape. Scarce's accessible and engaging writing style makes the book interesting and useful as an educational tool and reference guide for laypersons, educators, and professionals. The research bibliographies, compilation of survivor resources, and the sexual assault and rape codes for all of the 50 United States are invaluable.
Michael R. Stevenson, Ph.D. Department of Psychological Sciences Ball State University Muncie, IN 47306, USA
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My name is Keith Smith. I was abducted, beaten and raped
by a stranger. It wasn't a neighbor, a coach, a relative, a
family friend or teacher. It was a recidivist pedophile
predator who spent time in prison for previous sex crimes;
an animal hunting for victims in the quite, bucolic, suburban
neighborhoods of Lincoln, Rhode Island.
I was able to identify the guy and the car he was driving.
Although he was arrested that night and indicted a few
months later, he never went to trial. His trial never took
place because he was brutally beaten to death in Providence
before his court date. 34 years later, no one has ever been
charged with the crime.
In the time between the night of my assault and the night he
was murdered, I lived in fear. I was afraid he was still
around town. Afraid he was looking for me. Afraid he would
track me down and kill me. The fear didn?t go away when he
was murdered. Although he was no longer a threat, the
simple life and innocence of a 14-year-old boy was gone
forever. Carefree childhood thoughts replaced with the
unrelenting realization that my world wasn?t a safe place.
My peace shattered by a horrific criminal act of sexual
violence.
Over the past 34 years, I?ve been haunted by horrible,
recurring memories of what he did to me. He visits me in
my sleep. There have been dreams?nightmares actually?
dozens of them, sweat inducing, yelling-in-my-sleep
nightmares filled with images and emotions as real as they
were when it actually happened. It doesn?t get easier over
time. Long dead, he still visits me, silently sneaking up from
out of nowhere when I least expect it. From the grave, he
sits by my side on the couch every time the evening news
reports a child abduction or sex crime. I don?t watch
America?s Most Wanted or Law and Order SVU, because the
stories are a catalyst, triggering long suppressed emotions,
feelings, memories, fear and horror. Real life horror stories
rip painful suppressed memories out from where they hide,
from that recessed place in my brain that stores dark,
dangerous, horrible memories. It happened when William
Bonin confessed to abducting, raping and murdering 14 boys
in California; when Jesse Timmendequas raped and
murdered Megan Kanka in New Jersey; when Ben Ownby,
missing for four days, and Shawn Hornbeck, missing for
four years, were recovered in Missouri.
Despite what happened that night and the constant
reminders that continue to haunt me years later, I wouldn?t
change what happened. The animal that attacked me was a
serial predator, a violent pedophile trolling my neighborhood
in Lincoln, Rhode Island looking for young boys. He beat
me, raped me, and I stayed alive. I lived to see him
arrested, indicted and murdered. It might not have turned
out this way if he had grabbed one of my friends or another
kid from my neighborhood. Perhaps he?d still be alive.
Perhaps there would be dozens of more victims and perhaps
he would have progressed to the point of silencing his
victims by murdering them.
Out of fear, shame and guilt, I?ve been silent for over three
decades, not sharing with anyone the story of what
happened to me. No more. The silence has to end. What
happened to me wasn't my fault. The fear, the shame, the
guilt have to go. It?s time to stop keeping this secret from
the people closest to me, people I care about, people I love,
my long-time friends and my family. It?s time to speak out
to raise public awareness of male sexual assault, to let
other victims know that they?re not alone and to help
victims of rape and violent crime understand that the
emotion, fear and memories that may still haunt them are
not uncommon to those of us who have shared a similar
experience.
For those who suffer in silence, I hope my story brings
some comfort, strength, peace and hope.
My novel, Men in My Town, was inspired by these actual
events. Men in My Town is available now at
www.Amazon.com
For additional information, please visit the Men in My Town
blog at www.meninmytown.wordpress.com
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