A veterans' day of tribute

Nursing Homes, Nov, 2003 by Liz Harbison

Although the rain was falling outside, inside the tent spirits soared. Some family members had been concerned that dredging up wartime memories I might be painful. But after the program, they realized that these residents truly appreciated being recognized for their sacrifices. Some of the residents had as many as 17 family members present. One resident's out-of-state daughter was hesitant about attending because she assumed that her father would be a shell of the man she remembered. When she left, she left happy. Her father told her that he didn't come to Deer Meadows to die; he came to live. Hearing comments like this from families reminds us that what we do is a calling, not merely a career.

"A Salute to Our Military Family" was a one-time event that required more than 1,000 volunteer hours in planning and execution. It was ah ambitious--and yes, expensive-undertaking. Replicating an event such as this on a smaller scale can be just as powerful and meaningful, however. The important part is to thank the people who helped protect the freedoms we enjoy to day. As Christian remarked, "I want all those who have fallen on the battlefields of our many wars to look down and say, 'Job well done, Deer Meadows family. Thank you.'"

Liz Harbison is director of public relations and marketing at Deer Meadows Refirement Community. For more information, phone (215) 624-7575 or visit www.deer-meadows.org. To comment on this article, please send e-mail to horbison1103@nursinghomesmagazine.com.