Married With Children

American Demographics, March 1, 2003

Byline: WILLIAM H. FREY

The demise of the "traditional" married-with-children family is nearly as old a story as the 1950s-era Ozzie and Harriet plots that promoted this image of hearth and home in America. In 1960, nearly half of this country's households fit the mold of a married couple with at least one child under age 18. Fast-forward to today, when, according to Census 2000, less than one-fourth of households conform to this family model.

While alarms may have sounded at the news, the greatest decline in traditional family households actually began in 1960. The trend continued into the 1970s, when many Baby Boomers entered their family-forming years. By postponing marriage and childbearing (among those who even chose marriage or childbearing), and by divorcing at higher rates, Boomers contributed to the lower share of married-with-children households. Also contributing to the lowering of the percentage was the senior generations, whose increased life span allowed them to spend more years as empty-nesters, widows and widowers, creating many more childless and single-person households than in the past.

Still, any pronouncement of the death of the married-with-children family may be premature, as its decline slowed considerably in the most recent decade. Although this family type now accounts for just 23.5 percent of all households, its share has dropped by only 2.1 percent since 1990, compared with a 9.9 percent drop between 1970 and 1980 and a 4.8 percent decline during the 1980s. Moreover, these reputed traditional families registered an increase of 5.7 percent during the 1990s, in contrast to numeric decreases during the previous two decades. (See chart, "Stemming the Decline.")

The stronger-than-expected showing of traditional families in the 1990s can be attributed in large part to the population growth of immigrant Asians and Hispanics, who are more likely to form this family type, and to the lifestyle choices of Generation Xers (those born between 1965 and 1976), who have entered their household-forming years. In fact, married-with-children couples constitute more than one-third of Hispanic and Asian households. And while Gen Xers still assume a variety of household configurations, their preference for the traditional family has declined only modestly compared with that of earlier generations, suggesting a bottoming out of the three-decade trend. (See chart, "Gen X Marks the Spot.")

Leave It to Beaver Country

These specific family-forming groups - Asian and Hispanic immigrants and young adult Gen Xers - are gravitating toward several metropolitan areas and states. The impact of increased immigration and of Gen Xers' family building is evident in areas that are home to the largest shares of married-with-children households. Utah, with its growing immigrant and twentysomething populations, leads all other states, with more than one-third of households (35 percent) conforming to the married-with-children model. Likewise, two of the top five metropolitan areas (in terms of shares of married-with-children households), Provo-Orem and Salt Lake City-Ogden, are located in the Beehive State.

States where married couples with children make up more than a quarter of all households include those with high percentages of immigrants, such as Texas, California, New Jersey, Idaho and New Hampshire. The impact of large immigrant Hispanic populations is also seen in the list of metropolitan areas that rank high for traditional family share. In each, such families account for more than 3 in 10 households. They include the Texas border metros of Laredo, McAllen-Edinburg-Mission, Brownsville-Harlington-San Benito and El Paso, as well as Merced in central California.

Regions that registered the largest rates of growth in married-with-children households in the 1990s overlap broadly with those having the largest shares of such families. (See map, "Family Growth and Decline.") Among those with the fastest-growing rates of married-with-children households: much of the West; California; the Southwest's Texas; and the Southeastern states of Florida, Georgia and North Carolina. The latter two states, as well as many Western states (besides California), are also destinations for white suburbanites moving away from congested metro areas of the Northeast and West Coast. (See "The New White Flight," American Demographics, June 2002.)

Metropolitan areas with the most growth in traditional families are located primarily in these same regions, led by Las Vegas, where married-with-children households increased by 75 percent during the 1990s. (See table, "Las Vegas: Family Friendly?") These metro areas also have high overall household growth rates, but they can be distinguished from parts of the country that experienced declines in married-with-children households.

While all states showed gains in the total number of households in Census 2000, 21 registered declines in married-with-children households. They are largely located in the central part of the U.S., including the Midwest and the Great Plains, as well as in some demographically stagnant parts of the South and New England.